Wednesday, 9 May 2012

A Tale of Daniel aged 8 on Rhodes


Life from a Greek Island
My youngest son, Daniel and his struggles with the Greek Language on Rhodes.

Daniel’s teacher has been off sick and the replacement is a young student teacher.  She doesn’t know that Daniel is Irish and has a very limited knowledge of Greek.  For some reason he’s anxious she does not discover this.  He finds it makes life so much more interesting to bluff his way.  Apparently, she asked him to write some sentence about how a rabbit moves. I.e. a rabbit hops.  Daniel didn’t know the Greek word for hop so he wrote instead that “He liked rabbits”.  He doesn’t mind her thinking he’s a stupid Greek, he just doesn’t want her to guess he’s not Greek like all the rest.  It’s become a kind of game for him and he’s really enjoying it! 

He says there is a Greek boy in his class called Paris who knows only one expression in English, “R U urt?”.  He cannot say anything else in English.  Whenever Daniel falls, or is pushed into something or someone in the playground, Paris will run the full length of the playground to get his line into use.  Daniel says he has begun to associate pain with Paris’ face looming over him pronouncing  with evident delight, “R U urt?”.

Daniel is definitely a bit of a character!  At School assembly my eldest son crosses himself with the rest of the children.  We told him he didn’t have to but he says he should respect to their religion.  Which I understand.  My middle son does not cross himself but stands in line and tries to be the best he can.  Finding the middle way. Daniel does not stand in line and does not cross himself.  Even worse, when the entire 150 children and dozen teachers all turn to face the Greek flag and sing their national anthem slapping their chests in loyalty, Daniel turns his back on the flag and faces the other way!  What have we reared? 

Saturday, 5 May 2012

less than heroic today

Am feeling rather unwell and this is not the first day.  Am lying in bed feeling more than a little sorry for myself.  When the world contracts to four walls it somehow loses its value.  I can hear the others laughing and getting on with their lives and feel strangely disconcerted.  Not that I expect wailing and gnashing of teeth but it does serve to remind one that we are all not as important as we like to think.  Also, that idea that we are all the heroes of our own little movie is a complete illusion.  We hold it to ourselves in good and bad times and then are forced to see that we are just bit players with a few good lines and loads of crappy scenes.  Time alone allows you to remember all the bad bits and reflect on how things could/should have been done differently.  Ah well, am much better than yesterday and that is a plus.  Pretty soon I’ll be up and about and feeling heroic again.  Anyway, that is the plan.

Friday, 4 May 2012

inspiring story

Nice to see some one turn their life around in such an inspirational way. Enjoy!




Thursday, 3 May 2012

Want you better


Want you better
want to trust you know what you're doing
want you happy
to know what helps and what doesn't
want you protected
from all the world's perverse
want you whole
everything you can be and do
want you alright
with God's love beaming from each pore
want you grateful
for every moment of life given
want you guided
by that voice that lies within
want you to find yourself
not led by others where they want
want you better
in mind and soul, body and spirit

Wednesday, 2 May 2012

Dynamic Shift

What is it about getting past fifty that heralds the break down of health after decades of well being?  So unexpected to be wandering down hospital corridors and waiting in rooms full of other worried fifty plus individuals.  A sweet couple past me today in Altnagevin hospital he in his seventies with a white stick, with his hand on his wife's shoulder leading him out while she with a walking frame wobbled alongside.  Strangely touched by all our vulnerability.

Dynamic Shift

A belief begins in me
Deep down under all the layers
That change has begun
Years passing blur like
life racing between my fingers
but something within stirs
finds itself and grows
begin and trust it seems to say
the time is now, not later
choose this moment to begin
A dynamic shift within
Makes me think I should dare,
To hope to act, to achieve
To dream big and begin
I watch hardly hoping
But a flicker blazes within.

Monday, 30 April 2012

The Writing Class

It’s on a Thursday evening and I’m tired from a full day at college.  Weary teaching adolescents who have far too much energy and fed up with chemistry, a subject I have hated since I was fourteen and at school myself.

But on the way to Ballysally or Ballybosnia as the locals like to call it, something magical happens.  I pick up Joan, in her early eighties, and her sweet radiance fills the car.  We talk and I love how she memorises all her poems.  Funny, touching, pieces that bring another generation back to life.  Then we enter the centre surrounded by burnt out houses, bricked up doors and broken windows.  Into a small terrace house and we climb the steep staircase.  Joan says we could do with Sherpa’s to get up them!

Into a room already beginning to fill with our usual bunch.  A girl from the women’s refuge, an autistic girl, an English women, a jokey middle-aged fellow, a twenty four year old who loves fairies, Eleanor who has her leg removed , quiet Susie, young single mother Mary and finally Jackie who finds writing tricky and has her creative words transcribed by me.  It sounds as if it should all be very sad our odd bunch.  But the magic begins and as creativity kick starts all of us, laughter takes over.

Howls of appreciation for quick wit or screams of fun at misunderstanding.  If no one has written anything they have to bear the brunt of questions from everyone in the room.  Terrifying in their unexpectedness and intrusiveness.  “Who was your first love?” or “When did you last have sex?”  Better by far to read aloud a short piece of prose than face the firing line of such unpredictable attacks.  United in creating, nervous to see others reactions to our words we write like mad.  Emotions are exposed but confidence is not just gained, confidences are shared.  Our cheeks glow and ache from laughing too much.  My stomach muscles complain and all our immune systems are topped up with this unexpected happiness.  From weariness to accomplishment we have travelled far.  And even more inspiring than the words on paper is the unity generated in our small class. 

Sunday, 29 April 2012

Faith

It warms deep inside
When icy winds blow
Feeds the soul
When no reason to hope remains

It stiffens back in readiness for any load
And spurs on the deeds that light the day ahead

It turns the spotlight on one’s own ploughed field
Highlighting the bends the missed corners you need to see

An urgency to progress is lit
A fire within begins
A cry of thanks to God is heard
Drink deep this draught of Faith
Feel it, feed it, fan it.