The Voices We Rarely Heard
Years ago, in Northern Ireland, a friend and I asked about 25 women to write about their lives. We were conscious that it was usually the voices of male, well-known, influential or wealthy individuals that were being heard. So, tapping into these quiet women from all around the province, whose voices were seldom heard, seemed a no-brainer. This was 30 years ago and right in the midst of the Troubles.
Lives Tested to the Limit
As we collated their accounts, my friend and I noticed that all faced huge, huge personal challenges. In fact, these tests seemed almost personally designed to be particularly devastating for the individual involved, whether that was a parent with dementia, a partner with a severe illness, a marriage break-up, the death of a child, blindness or other mental and physical health problems. The list of problems was startling, and my colleague commented that it seemed the worst poison was being served up to those individuals with the deliberate intent to do maximum damage!
Shoulders to the Wheel of Peace
But despite that, their accounts also radiated hope and perseverance. Not only that, but they all had their shoulders to the wheel of peace in Northern Ireland, doing what they could in their own way to make that possible in homes and communities, both rural and urban.
The Unrecorded Foundations of Peace
So, in these times when the men of violence on both sides are loudly celebrated for having laid aside their weapons, I would just like to point out that the true foundations of peace were laid by women who reached out the hand of friendship across communities throughout the length and breadth of the province.
Keeping the Beacon Alight
Their heartfelt contributions should never be forgotten because, deep down, I am convinced they, and others like them, kept the beacon of light going in incredibly difficult days. They walked that path with a nobility and dignity that contrasted with the darkness and viciousness that surrounded them. They and those like them will never be given their due. Those who kill, those who have power and those who control the media will not speak of their goodness or celebrate their small, important victories.
Quietly Turning the Tide
But I’m convinced that, under all the noise and bluster we see around us these days too, there are so many women around the world who, in their own quiet, persistent ways, are turning the tide on hate and prejudice and building more united and peaceful communities.
We shouldn’t be surprised. Women have long played a decisive part, often under the radar, organising public pressure, crossing communal divisions, mediating between armed groups or negotiating the final settlement in conflicts around the world. It’s good to be reminded of their contributions.
Eight Times Women Helped Build Peace
1. Northern Ireland – Women Who Kept the Door Open
In 1996, Catholic and Protestant women, including Monica McWilliams, Pearl Sagar and May Blood, formed the Northern Ireland Women’s Coalition. It helped ensure that the 1998 Good Friday Agreement addressed victims, reconciliation, integrated education, mixed housing and the creation of a Civic Forum. The Coalition maintained dialogue when other parties even refused to speak to one another.
2. Liberia – Christian and Muslim Women United
During Liberia’s civil war, Leymah Gbowee brought Christian and Muslim women together in the Women of Liberia Mass Action for Peace. Wearing white, thousands prayed, demonstrated and demanded that President Charles Taylor and the rebel leaders negotiate. In 2003, women maintained their pressure on the peace talks in Ghana until an agreement was reached. Their campaign helped bring the country’s exceptionally brutal civil war to an end. Gbowee later received the Nobel Peace Prize.
3. Wajir, Kenya – When Women Stopped a Clan War
In 1993, women from opposing Somali clans in Wajir began meeting because violence had made the local market unsafe. Led by women including Dekha Ibrahim Abdi, they persuaded elders, religious leaders, businesspeople and government officials to participate. Their initiative developed into a wider peace process and contributed directly to the Al-Fatah Peace Declaration, which established a ceasefire and ended the fighting. The resulting peace committees became a model for other parts of Kenya.
4. The Philippines – A Woman at the Negotiating Table
Miriam Coronel-Ferrer headed the Philippine government’s negotiating team in talks with the Moro Islamic Liberation Front. In 2014, she became the first woman in the world, as chief negotiator, to sign a comprehensive peace agreement with a major rebel organisation. The agreement provided the foundations for the Bangsamoro autonomous region and helped end decades of large-scale conflict in Mindanao, although sporadic violence has continued.
5. Colombia – Changing the Terms of Peace
Colombian women’s organisations campaigned persistently to be heard during negotiations between the government and the FARC guerrillas. Women eventually participated on both negotiating teams. Their influence helped place victims, displaced women, land ownership, sexual violence and women’s political participation within the final 2016 agreement. The accord ended the main conflict with FARC after more than five decades, although implementation remains incomplete.
6. Bougainville – Crossing the Battle Lines
During Bougainville’s civil war, women used family, church and traditional networks to communicate across divisions that male fighters often could not cross. They carried messages, persuaded combatants to disarm, organised local reconciliation ceremonies and pressed the opposing sides to negotiate. Women, as usual, were not given as much authority in the formal talks as their work deserved, but their grassroots mediation helped create the conditions for the ceasefire and the 2001 Bougainville Peace Agreement.
7. Burundi – Refusing to Be Excluded
Women were not just ignored but initially largely excluded from negotiations to end Burundi’s civil war. Women from the country’s different ethnic and political communities nevertheless organised an All-Party Women’s Peace Conference and presented a joint programme to the negotiators. Their recommendations, which included protection for returning refugees, punishment of sexual violence, women’s inheritance rights and women’s participation in reconstruction, were incorporated to varying degrees into the 2000 Arusha Peace and Reconciliation Agreement.
8. Somalia – The Sixth Clan for Peace
At Somalia’s 2000 Arta peace conference, political representation was divided between five principal clan groupings. Women led by Asha Hagi Elmi organised across clan boundaries and declared themselves the “Sixth Clan”—representing peace rather than one lineage. They successfully secured women’s representation in the transitional parliament and inserted a cross-clan voice into the process. The settlement did not end Somalia’s conflict permanently, but it was a major peace-building achievement.
The Quiet Power Behind Peace
What is especially striking is that these women often succeeded because they could cross the very boundaries—religion, clan, ethnicity or political allegiance—that sustained the conflict. They usually did not possess armies or official power. Their influence came from persistence, moral authority, community connections and an ability to keep people talking.
“Strive that the ideal of international peace may become realized through the efforts of womankind.”
‘Abdu’l-Bahá















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